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Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from
people who have a habit of arguing

George Washington Carver
Chemist who discovered more than 325 benefits of peanuts

If you're honest, we often create reasons for any failures and mistakes we did. For example, when we are late to school or office, our minds instantly find and create an excuse. Our minds are directed to find a reason to avoid the mistakes that we do. If there is a reason the school, then each of us may have earned his doctorate there might even have earned among our professors. When we are born there are no parents that teaches how to create a reason for every mistake we did.

We always create an excuse to avoid punishment for our failures. We must understand, that the reason we create never given the changes in our lives.
The reason is the obstacle to success. Every reason we have created for the failures is the curtain that stuck to restrict and imprison us all the time. Brothers from around the rules is the attitude of complaining. Employees who are happy to make excuses, would always complain to the salary received and complained to the policies and rules determined by the company. Children who always create the reasons for the errors made, always complaining to his physical condition, family economic condition, educational facilities, and all of them.

Many people expect her body slim and expect someone else do it for himself. They expect others who exercise for himself, other people who diet delicious food for themselves, other people who live disciplined for himself. Something impossible.

If you want to create a life full of success, you must take control of your life. From now on, stop arguing, stop complaining, stop complaining for your physical flaws, stop complaining at the injustice that happened in your life, stop using the excuse why you can not and will not get what you dreamed of until now, and stop blaming external circumstances yourself. You must promise to yourself, that from now on, you stop doing these things forever. Action to stop blaming is a sign that you love yourself and your future. Stop for a moment (during five minutes), write and say as many as 7 (seven) times to yourself this sentence: I am responsible for my life! Must be planted in your mind, that you are the one person responsible for your life.
Success is a decision to turn obstacles into opportunities for success. Perhaps one of the things that hold you to succeed because you are filled with a variety of pretexts. Stop the excuses you if you want to achieve success in the year 2009. Make the year 2009 as a year full of blessings and pelipatgandaanmujizat, confidence and success. GBU